Grief - like most things in life - goes through a process.
Denial - Anger - Acceptance - Remembrance
They all play a part -- some linger longer than others - but, in the end, we need to choose to move on from one to another. Right now, we are both working through our loss of Muffers and for the most part - we are doing fine.
In the meantime, our sweet Libby-Lou is helping in any way she can -- she even tried her feline powers with the computer -- she thought Dad needed some assistance.